Can Your Love Language Change Overtime?

Hola, Hello! Your girl is back writing and if you have been following me for a while, then you know I really have a passion for this; my blog is my safe space and I love it here.

I have been thinking about 'Love Languages' and how this topic continues to be the center of the downfall of many relationships. I believe there is a reason for this and honestly, the purpose of this blog is for me to share my thoughts and what has been on my mind about the topic.

I first read 'The Five Love Languages' book by Gary Chapman. when I was 20 years old, almost 7 years ago and when I go back and think about the time I read that book, all I can remember is me being married trying to understand my ex's husband love language. I had no idea of who I was as a whole and my goal at that time was to learn my partner.

I found out my number one language is 'Words of Affirmation' and the second one 'Quality Time'. Once again, I was only 20 when I realized how I wanted to be loved. Now, after all the self-work I've done within myself I went from wanting to be affirmed all the time to appreciating acts of service and this is now on top of words of affirmation. I truly believe that your love language can change as you grow and evolve as a person based on my experience. I also believe that certain connections can have you craving a certain type of love language based on what they lack. For example, if you have a partner who's always working and busy all the time, your number one love language can go from acts of service to quality time...

Here's the new quiz I took a few days ago:

Quality time stayed solid and this is because I truly enjoy spending time those I love. If you notice, there is only a 7% difference between Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation. I found this very interesting because I did noticed a difference in my dating life and also the fact that I started paying more attention to people's actions rather than their words. Understanding your love language is super important and I suggest you all to take that time to understand how you receive love.

Now, tell me what is YOUR love language? Did this blog post resonated with you? I really hope it did.

Xoxo,

Alexa